5 Things You Should Never Start in Life

“Your life does not get better by chance, it gets better by change.” 

– Jim Rohn

We live in a world full of choices—some lift us higher, while others quietly drag us down. While many habits and decisions shape who we become, there are some roads better left untraveled. Starting certain things in life can lead to regrets, pain, or lost opportunities. In this article, we’ll explore five things you should never start—if you truly want to lead a fulfilled, positive, and meaningful life.

1. Smoking or Alcoholism

This is one of the worst habits anyone can adopt. While it may start with curiosity, stress relief, or peer pressure, it quickly turns into a destructive cycle. Smoking doesn’t just harm your lungs—it burns away your health, your peace, your time, and sometimes even your relationships. The same goes for alcohol abuse. Addiction steals silently and gives nothing but regret in return.

Tip: Surround yourself with people who promote a healthy lifestyle and seek support early if you're feeling tempted. Prevention is far easier than recovery.

2. Ignoring Your Parents

In a world that often glorifies independence, we must not forget the very people who gave us life, support, and unconditional love. Ignoring your parents not only dishonors their sacrifices but also robs you of precious time and memories that you may one day long for. Honor them while you still can—because one day, they will become just memories.

Tip: Call or visit your parents regularly. Set a weekly reminder if necessary—consistency strengthens bonds and shows them they matter.

3. Judging or Mistreating Others

Whether it’s someone's job, status, race, appearance, or background—never start the habit of judging or mistreating others. Everyone fights battles you may never see. A kind heart and a fair mind are worth more than a thousand opinions. Kindness is free, and compassion is powerful.

Tip: Practice empathy. Before judging someone, ask yourself: How would I feel in their shoes? A shift in perspective often leads to a softer heart.

4. Hate

Hating someone doesn’t harm them—it only destroys your peace. Carrying hate is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to suffer. Instead, choose forgiveness. Let go. Heal. Set yourself free. Life is too short to waste on bitterness.

Tip: Write down your feelings, then release them—burn the paper or throw it away. It's a symbolic yet effective way to start healing and forgiving.

5. Wasting Time

Time is the only resource that, once gone, can never be reclaimed. The hours you waste today are the opportunities you’ll wish you had tomorrow. Never start the habit of procrastination, distraction, or living passively. Be intentional with your time—invest it in growth, purpose, and passion.

Tip: Start each day with a short to-do list. Prioritize your goals and eliminate distractions like excessive social media or procrastination triggers.

Final Thoughts: Choose Wisely

Every decision you make plants a seed—what you start today shapes your future. Choose growth over destruction, love over hate, and purpose over passivity. Life gives you one chance. Use it wisely.

Take a moment today and ask yourself: What habits am I starting that might be holding me back? Then make the bold decision to change. Your best life starts with your next choice.